Hi, there. Have you ever encountered an individual
who instead of telling you exactly, how they feel about you or a situation,
acts out indirectly? They slam the door, give you the silent treatment, put on
memes on social media loaded with jibe after jibe well, they no longer call you.
It’s a type of mode where you want control over a person, and the only way to
do that is to be passive aggressive through words and actions.
However, from my experience its one of the worst and
hurtful emotion you could direct towards a person. To me it’s backed up with
“spitefulness,” and “revenge,” and “manipulation” But one thing I’ve noticed is
that people tend to do this to get a reaction. It could be to see you hurt,
like how they are hurting; to get their desired response from you. It could be
something you’ve been doing over and over again and the only way to punish you
is cut off all line of communication.
Sometimes instead of being rude or cutting off an
individual –a lesson I have to learn, way guilty of this- maybe we can speak
our mind? If the situation allows it, and if you consider them to be a friend,
speak up. Tell the truth, and let them know what’s on your mind-whomever it may
be. I know for a fact, parents are hell bound on using this method as
punishment. But, if you want to have a good line of communication, and to get
things settled and peaceful, please speak up!
Allow someone to know that you’re not comfortable
with a situation. Try voicing your opinions, peacefully. Not to create antagonism
but to find a centre.
https://archive.org/embed/PassiveAgressive_201501
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