I am strong. I am invincible. I am W.O.M.A.N!!






On March 8, 2015, the world celebrated International Women's Day. According to an article from the United Nations’ “it is a day when women are recognized for their achievements without regard to divisions, whether national, ethnic, linguistic, cultural, economic or political. International Women's Day first emerged from the activities of labour movements.” 2. (UN)

I learned that this day was inspired by female garment workers who sparked a protest in New York city on March  08, 1908 with the aim of gender equality and fair rights as it related to their working environment. In that year women were not paid equally, worked longer and were not allowed to vote.
It was not in the place of the world to view us as equals although we existed and worked among men. So to combat this, women gathered in bands staging a series of protests, fighting for their ultimate desire of having a fair chance of working without gender prejudices; fought relentlessly to be given a fair share of payment as their male counterparts; fought without ceasing to work within safe and comfortable working conditions which did not require them bound to unfair labour laws.
 
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These women realized that within a changing world where many women became the victims of “single motherhood” by whatever circumstance, they had to assume the role of being their own provider. This could only mean treading across their “conditioned role” of wives, mothers and home makers to join the working force. If they were to survive, it was their only option.

The birth of Women’s Day moved from just being about feminine rights to include the safety of our men and society at large. For example, the women of Russia who first recognized Women’s’ Day in the 1913-1914, began a protest in 1917 to end the violence of the war due to the rising death of our men and women. It was a band to create peace and restore some normalcy in the lives of their people.

That one, confident move from these women with a purpose in 1908 struck a dam which overflowed right into the 20th century. It’s a battle which is continuously being fought. It moved from being just for good working conditions to granting women their freedom to live without harassment and treated poorly solely on the basis of their gender. For example, did you know, according to Mail Online published March 11, 2015, the Iranian government has drafted a legislation preventing women who either choose not to reproduce or who are biologically incapable of reproducing, from being employed? There is also a draft to the legislation preventing contraception. This is a first bill, which from the article mentioned that it has already been “once approved by the parliament and the second bill only gives exclusive employment rights to men and women who have borne children. Think about it, in Iran very soon if you haven’t given birth or god forbid incapable of doing so, you can’t be employed-regardless of how well educated you are.

I’ll also bring to light the story of Reyhaneh Jabbari who was sentenced to death row in Iran after she refused to allow a man to rape her. Basically she somehow stabbed and murdered the man in self-defense, according to the news, and because of this she underwent a strenuous fight trying to shed light on her situation. Despite the intervention from many countries pleading for her case, she still underwent the death penalty. There was no mercy for her defending herself. It’s a very murky situation in such countries because the women don’t have many rights. If their women defend themselves in situations, such as rape, which call for oppression, they will be imprisoned, stoned, beaten, or put to death.



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Prior to Women’s Day, I have to admit that I was against equality and an antifeminist. Frankly, with the minimal knowledge I had prior to writing this blog, I viewed feminism and equality with contempt. I couldn’t fathom why women need to reveal their bosoms on Go Topless Day and display their bosoms as a means of showing that they’re equal to men?! Does it feel good to have your bosoms out and exposed in the burning sun?! All of this came from a religious point of view and I am one for being obedient and hoping it will grant me a reward. In a Godly home, I was raised seeing the man being the hard worker, protector and meal provider for his family.
 
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 It’s what I know but I also see my mother and grandmother serving just as strong roles in their lives and they did raise me, along with my grandfather, to be educated and self reliant (a lesson which is taking its time). So, being a child of Abba, and raised into believing women should be humble, and display modesty, it’s a bit difficult to break out of such a program.  However, women’s day just opened another realm of understanding and seeing a different point of view through the eyes of the unfairly misjudged and “tired-of –crap” women who are fighting hard for their place to survive in this out- of- balance world without oppression. Despite all of this, disappointingly I will have to confess that I do not exactly believe in equality (well, to an extent) so, such a belief may not make me a feminist. However, I do believe in standing up and refusing to be subjected to unfair, ridiculous laws which only create to serve one party.

Afterall, Queen Vashti did refuse to come out to King Ahasuerus to display her beauty in front of his mates!
 
Photo: Queen Vashti/Esther by Edward Long. Shot by ClaraDon
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Number 6 of the reference list has the story and letter of Reyhaneh Jabbari's good bye letter to her mother. She fought for her right not to be a victim. She may have died for her cause but her story is an inspiration to many.
 
 
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